Taking Radical Responsibility with Allie Tymo

INTRO

Kathryn Thompson  00:02

Hey, hey, I am super stoked to have allie on the show today, I'm just gonna turn it straight over to you allie, so you can share with our listeners who you are and what you do.

Allie Tymo  00:11

Yeah, perfect. First, I just want to say thank you so much for having me here on your podcast, it is just so deeply appreciated, and a little about who I am. So I'm a brand strategist and energetic embodiment coach. So the thing that really lights me up is really taking what I would kind of classify as like that masculine energy of brand strategy and everything that you need to do to run a beautiful, abundant business, and then Pair that with the feminine of the energetics and the embodiment of that, because it's really easy to build a business from a place of misalignment. And then you run into things like resenting your business, burning out all of these things that you really don't want. But when you deeply understand and know yourself, then it just gets to feel alive. It gets to feel expansive, and fun. And that's how I want to do business.

Kathryn Thompson  01:06

I love it. I love it. And I've been there having built a business completely out of alignment. So I totally get the burnout, the resentment, all of the anger and frustration that comes with that. So I love what you do. And I know we're going to dive into like, radical responsibility more. And what that actually means for business. And I know a lot of business has traditionally been built in the masculine, right, the doing all of that. And we're seeing this big shift now, where we're embodying that feminine and really doing things in alignment doing things that we want to do. Would you say that? Vow it like it's almost a balance? Now, would you say that that is the key to building an abundant business or a successful business?

Allie Tymo  01:50

Is really merging both together? Yeah. Yeah. From my experience, yes, I think that, like you said, how we used to kind of build businesses was really from that masculine place that like, go do hustle. And then now we're, you know, kind of awakening to the reality that it doesn't have to be done that way. But then what's happening is going to the other end of the spectrum, where it's so feminine, and it's so flowy, and I'm just going to attract clients from my energy. And you know, these things that sound really great. But you need both. That's the reality of the 3d world we're living in. So when you can really have an understanding and an integration of both, it's just like, it's the sweet spot, especially because the feminine really wants to be flowy and creative. But it needs to feel safe enough to actually do that. So the masculine is like the container it holds it with, like the systems and the structure and the logic and all of that stuff.

Kathryn Thompson  02:50

I love that you reference that and say, like that, we need both, right? Because I think we can hear messages online or in business. It's like feminine and feminine and feminine, right? And then we swing so far, one way, but that structure in those systems are the thing that actually help us operate in flow. How do you How did you get into this business? How did you get into doing this?

Allie Tymo  03:15

Oh, well, okay, so, like, where do I start the conversation, because it's always such a journey, right? So really, like my, my whole life, I had kind of struggled with knowing what my, my thing was. And I really struggled with depression and anxiety, and really went through my own kind of dark night of the soul, which led me to personal development, which led me to discovering that life coaching was even a thing. So that was like 2013, I think I discovered that life coaching was an actual profession. And then I enrolled for a 2015 certification in life coaching. And that's really where my business was born, was from the space of, you know, just wanting to hold women in their personal transformation and evolution. And then from there, it really naturally pivoted the more I grew my business, the more I could see that I could help other women grow their businesses and really tie both in together. So yeah, I mean, initially, it was really born from like, this is something that I need, and it wasn't even an intention to start a business. And funnily enough, my parents were both entrepreneurs. So I saw how, quote unquote hard it was, and I was like, This is not for me, I don't want to own my own business. I'm just gonna get some job working from someone else. I'm not gonna worry about anything. But then, you know, it's, it's in my blood, it's in my DNA and it just happened to pivot that way, and the brand management and strategy part of my business really started integrating in like 2017 2018 so all around when I had my children

Kathryn Thompson  04:55

amazing and was it having children that like Did something or like, a week is the catalyst? 

Allie Tymo   05:04

Yeah. Yeah, I think, in a lot of ways, yes. And it's so interesting because as mothers who are also entrepreneurs, sometimes it's easy to go into the mindset of like, if I didn't have kids, and I'd have a lot more time or my business would be further along. But the reality that I really came to is, I wouldn't have my business if it weren't for my kids, like, because they they really taught me so much, you know, like time management, what actually mattered to me. So I got my certification during the full year of 2015. And I had my daughter in the middle of that year, ah, and so I really birthed my daughter and my business at the same time. And then when it was time, I went on mat leave. And when it was time to go back to work, it was really hard for me to grapple with going somewhere to do something I didn't even want to do, I'd rather be there for her. So going back through that I got pregnant with my son in 2017. Found out that I was pregnant, and a week later lost my job. And that was like the huge catalyst for me to be like, there's no way I'm going back into a corporate job, there's no way I'm going to go somewhere where I have this false sense of security. I'm working for myself, I'm going all in I'm doing this,

Kathryn Thompson  06:25

which is so interesting, because a lot of people rely on corporate as a sense of security. And they think of entrepreneurship as a false sense of security. Right? But you looked at it from a totally different perspective, because of the experience, like you had lost your job. And it was like, well, that's not really secure. But so many people stay in corporate for so long before actually pursuing the thing that they want. Because they feel like it's almost like a security blanket that a lot of ways. I know, that's what I did anyways, 15 years in corporate before finally being like, Okay, I can't do this anymore.

Allie Tymo  06:58

Yeah. And I think if it didn't happen, the way that it happened, I would have stayed a lot longer than what I did. And even after losing that job, still going through interviews, trying to find other jobs trying to think like, well, I have, you know, I have a young toddler, and I have a baby on the way how am I gonna feed my family? It was like, everything just came to the surface. And it was a lot. But then yeah, really realizing that it is an illusion, and still having those projections from other people, like even people in my family who were like, Oh, what if you lose a client? What if your business doesn't work? And I'm like, I'm not available for that. It's not gonna happen? Because I'm not available for it.

Kathryn Thompson  07:35

Totally, totally. And in the end of the day, I mean, you could lose your job in corporate like, again, nothing's nothing is for certain, right? I mean, it might

Allie Tymo  07:45

as well chase after what your soul actually wants. Totally,

Kathryn Thompson  07:49

totally. And so you shifted from like life coaching into this brand strategist? And like, how did that evolve?

Allie Tymo  07:56

Yeah, very beautifully. So like I said, I lost my job. I was like, how am I gonna make ends meet, I was like, Okay, I just want to make like $1,700 a month for my business. I was like, the bar was set. So low, I'm, like, I'm loving I have to do is this thing. So there was no, like, 10k months, I was like, I just need this. I don't have to go do that. And it was a friend of mine, actually. And I saw her really, she grew her business in person and was pivoting to go online. And because I had so much experience doing it, I was like, I think I can help you out. So it really just started from that and then grew from referral and word of mouth. And I kept the brand management and brand strategy, kind of like a secret for a solid two years, nobody knew that I was doing it. I was just like, I'm gonna do this in secret when I build my coaching practice. And then I was like, why am I resisting this so much? It's like, I love it. It brings me joy, why don't I share more of what I'm doing. And I was doing brand management from like, you know, writing, copy, doing funnels, everything behind the scenes in the business, the branding, the graphics, all of it. And now I'm even in this position where I've been doing that for gosh, like four years, where I'm pivoting more specifically into strategy and staying more high level instead of in the weeds so much.

Kathryn Thompson  09:22

I love it. And it's so interesting, because it's like, we resist sometimes the things that come up in our orbit so effortlessly, and we're like for trying to force this other thing to happen. And yet there's this thing happening over here that's just so easy. And I love your you know, I want to dive into like the idea of getting kind of out of the weeds and in the strategy because I know a lot of our listeners are gonna resonate with this, especially CEOs, visionaries of businesses that get caught up in the weeds in their business, where did the desire to like shift out of the weeds of the doing? Come to them and really want to sit sort of more in that high-level visionary strategy rule?

Allie Tymo  10:05

Yeah. And it's so interesting, like when we have a vision for how we think our business should look. And then when we're naturally taken in a different direction, we're like, no, no, no, this doesn't look like how my mind wants it to look. So I'm gonna resist this, but going with it. And, and I mean, that's really what's pushing me pushing, pushing the wrong word, but like moving me into this different direction of being more high level more specific, like just the strategy, instead of doing it all. I'm very naturally being taken in that way. And I'm really because I'm so in tune with my energy, and I understand how to leverage my energy so well, it's like, I'm trusting the process more, as opposed to resisting it. So if someone's listening, who's a CEO, and they're in the weeds, and they're doing everything, but they know like, this is not where I'm meant to be. This is not where my genius thrives, like you already know. And I would find myself being in the weeds being taken away from where I wanted to be. And then it was creating like this push-pull friction, this resentment almost. And it was just this knowing that you know, when it's time to delegate, you know, when it's time to pivot, it's just how long and how hard, are you going to actually resist it?

Kathryn Thompson  11:25

Yeah, I love that. I love that. Because I think there are definitely times in my entrepreneurship journey that I've held on to things a little longer than I probably should have, like, reached point of burnout and frustration and all of that, and resisted the thing that was coming so effortlessly, and I talked to so many of my clients, I'm like, that they have this vision in their head of what it should look like. Yeah. And then there's all this beautiful, effortless stuff coming into their Orban. They're like they're fighting it. They're like, what I want this, I'm like, This is so easy, like, yeah, it's so interesting. In terms of radical responsibility, I'd love to know what your thoughts are about radical responsibility, what does it actually mean for you?

Allie Tymo  12:10

Yeah, and I think radical responsibility is becoming so in tune with your energy, what you need, actually honoring that and moving when you're being like, when you feel that pull towards something else. I mean, radical responsibility is so deeply layered, and ultimately, at the core of it is integrity. So it's not just about your integrity that you hold within yourself, but the integrity in your relationships, the Integrity with your clients, even in my pivot from, like brand management. I was like, Oh, this is disempowering for me. But it's actually also disempowering for my clients to be holding so much in their businesses, that that it's taking away from their leadership. So totally, even though it's like easy to make money, that way, it's easy to sell, it's easy to start doing, it's something like it's a skill set that comes really easily to me. But even though, that felt easy, knowing that it wasn't the correct thing that it didn't feel like in integrity for me to do. And I think all of us are a lot more intuitive than we give ourselves credit for. And we resist the things that we deeply know. Because we get caught up in our minds, and we're disconnected from our heart. And we're like, wait, but my mind says my journey should look like this. My mind says that I need to make money this way. My mind says, you know, we just were so up here. And ultimately, it's, you're not being responsible to yourself.

Kathryn Thompson  13:45

Yeah. Yeah. And I want to dive into the whole easy money making, and how that I think what I know, it's, it's done. This for me is like, yeah, I can make money in it. Yeah, I'm good at it. But does that mean that's the thing I'm actually supposed to be doing? And in reality, that's the thing that's gonna prevent you from actually calling in what you actually truly desire? Because you're still putting effort and energy into that. thing,

Allie Tymo  14:14

your energetic like, there. Yeah.

Kathryn Thompson  14:18

And it's like, how, because I know people are gonna say, how do I, if I'm looking to grow my business? And I know it's coming from a place maybe of lack, where it's like, well, what if I don't sign clients over here? Or what if I don't make money in this new thing? It's like, I have to keep saying yes to this old thing. Before I can fully go in on this new thing. Like, what would you say to somebody that's kind of balancing in both worlds or has feet on both worlds, so to speak, like to finally make that leap?

Allie Tymo  14:49

Yeah, I think the more that you're tethered to the old way of being and doing and making money, the less space that you have to welcome in what you're actually here to do because like yes, it's like what you did hire to do, but also what you're meant to do. While you're here to do. We're all such unique beings and we all have this innate genius within us. But either we don't think that we're worthy enough, we don't think it's good enough. We're like, undermining our own genius and not seeing our talent and our expertise for what it is. And not fully leaning into it thinking that we won't be held if we surrender to what we're actually meant to move into. So I think the thing that I would say is like, what would it feel like if you fully trusted it? Is that it's such a, and it sounds so like, easy, and it sounds fluffy, like, oh, just trust it? But like, really? What if you let some things fall away, still maintain a sense of safety? So what if you let some things fall away so that you could open up space for something else, and I've, I've had this experience this year, where so many things fell away, and it caused a lot of anxiety for me, you know, whether it was like, having a really big contract with my client and being like, wow, that's a really big dip in my income, I have to do something really fast to make up for it. And then realizing, no, like, the reason why this is happening is that I'm not meant to do this. I'm meant to go somewhere else. And what if I trust it? What if I really was in this space, I actually just posted a post on Instagram, really like referencing the void, where it's like, the Void is really the space before all your manifestations comes to form. And it's like, we're the old has fallen away and the new and where you're going has yet to come in. And that space, there's a lot to hold there. Because it's, it's like there's the possibility and the expansion, and there's the doubt, and there's the worry, and there's the anxiety and there's like the wobble and all of that. And in that space, it's so easy to be like No, no, no, I can't do it. It's too scary. I need my like security blanket. Yeah. But is your security blanket actually like in your highest alignment?

Kathryn Thompson  17:07

Yeah. And that void piece is like, is one of I say the most uncomfortable spots to be in, as you mentioned, because it's like that, that the possibility is there and you can see it and likely feel it and you know, that inner knowing that you want to move in that direction. But there's that ego and that doubt that just loves to creep in and start to wreak havoc of like, what if you don't land any clients? Or what if you don't, this new thing isn't successful? Or what if you lose everything you've built? That fear a lot of the women I work with, you know, if she's achieved great success in their life, and business, and they're wanting to make the pivot, and, but they're scared of letting the thing go that they've built and that is successful to move on to the next evolution or thing that they're actually being called to do. And so that void piece is just such an uncomfortable place to be

Allie Tymo  18:02

so deeply uncomfortable. I mean, I personally have spent many hours just like crying. I'm just like, what's going on? How do I make sense of this? But then really like dropping back into that space of like, okay, what would radical responsibility look like, in this moment? Not even just like in the grand scheme, but in this moment, if I was taking radical responsibility for myself, then what is what's in my highest interest, ultimately, knowing that, like, when you're in that void, too, it's so tempting to fall into, like old patterns and all the stuff that comes up, but to have the awareness to stop and be like, okay, but am I choosing a new story for myself? Because the old is that even what you want? Yeah. And enjoy? Does it make you feel alive? Are you just doing it? Because like, the ego, because all of these derbo Go on? Yeah.

Kathryn Thompson  18:57

Yeah. And I think like that, I mean, it definitely is a tug of war back and forth. And I think it goes back to self-trust and a lot of ways, right, like, do I trust the direct the new direction that I'm being called to? And am I staying in integrity with that, which is the foundation of radical responsibility, right? It's like, Am I staying in? Because sticking with the old is out of integrity?

Allie Tymo  19:23

Yeah, but it's certain. And that's why it feels secure. And it's like moving in a different direction is so uncertain. There's so much that you can't humans in general, we just want to control everything. We just have everything certain and control it. And I think it's not even necessarily just trusting the direction but it's like, how deeply Do you trust yourself?

Kathryn Thompson  19:43

Yeah. Yeah. And that vision, right that's been placed on your heart that you know, is where you want to go. And it's like, there's a lot of uncertainty with that. Yeah,

Allie Tymo  19:55

yeah. Yeah. I like such it's such a big deal. conversation because it's just like, there's so much nuance within it, right? There's so much that you can move through and so much that comes up. I think ultimately, it's like, where when you're trying to cultivate a sense of safety from in something that's outside of yourself, you're gonna continuously run into patterns where that safety will feel wobbly. But when you can learn to really like regulate your nervous system and cultivate the safety from within, then you know, you can like weather the storm, you trust yourself more deeply. There's no wobble in your authentic power. You just like you trust it, you're there with it, you're in the moment you're not living in the past, you're not projecting in the future, like you've got this.

Kathryn Thompson  20:43

Yeah, and I think that whole nervous system regulation and safety, right, wanting to feel safe and feel safe and business, right, feel safe and seeing the cash flow coming in of you're coming into your business, seeing the clients come in, right, there's this whole essence of safety that I think a lot of entrepreneurs, or a lot of the ones that I work with is like that's one of the biggest issues they face, and a lot of ways is because they don't 100% feel safe in their business. Would you say that, you know, in terms of like integrity with self, and integrity within your business, like if somebody's in the midst of let's just say they're feeling the pull to something else? What is the process look like in terms of I know, we can't necessarily put a timeframe on things. But I think in this world of instant gratification, it's, we always want the thing quick, right? It's like, how do I get this like now? And why is this void taking months or whatever? Like? You started doing one thing, and you've pivoted a few times, like, what is the process look like? Now from being in the weeds to the strategy? Like you said, you're kind of shifting now. What does that look like in sort of a timeframe?

Allie Tymo  22:02

Oh, so I really feel like that process started for me. I would say like March of this year, and I'm still going through that phase of really like refining. And, like, I'm so clear on what it looks like. And I'm so clear on where I'm going. And I'm also in that same time. I mean, it's so interesting how everything came up. Because really, that process started for me in March, and we sold our house in April, and then now just moved across the country. So not only was it this huge pivot in my business, but also in my personal life where literally everything about my life has changed. So you can just really allowing, it's like noticing the parts of myself where I'm like, but I have to make things happen fast. And then that part of myself that's like, what do I actually need right now? Like, I need to feel grounded, I need to allow myself the space and my kids are four and seven. So it's like they're in the middle. We just moved a week. We're not even in our house. Yeah, at the time of this recording. Yeah. So it's like, how can I even though I'm pivoting in my business, I want all this to happen in my business and have all these grand plans. But to know that right now, in this moment, my priority is my family. My priority is my kids. And I get to still feel supported by my business and choose for that to not be priority number one, because something else is priority number one right now. Yeah. And you know, I think that's a really good example of radical responsibility is really identifying, like, where do I need to be right now. And so much of the time as an entrepreneur, we're told to place your business is number one. But that's not always the case. Sometimes it's number two, sometimes it's number four, like, it varies on a scale, and that's perfectly okay. And I think the instant gratification is just like, it's an old paradigm. Whereas trusting in divine timing and trusting that everything is working out for you, and trusting that you're supported no matter what. Anchoring into that, again, and again, is so important. And also, I'm still working with mentors, and there's, you know, there's plant-like, I'm still thinking of things, I'm just planning it in a way that's in alignment with me and with what I actually need versus what I think I should do. So there is that strategy that comes in. But there's still like, a lot of space for life. Like, I don't think that we should build our life around our business, we should build our business around our life. And that's how you actually attain fulfillment.

Kathryn Thompson  24:41

Yeah, and I think that there's something so calming when you think about nervous system and safety and feeling calm and at ease in your body. Like if you're going for the instant gratification, there's so much pressure there to make it happen like tomorrow. And it's like I just feel like I mean, I was a really quick mover and we'd get stuff done and very much in my masculine for many years of my life and go, go, go, go go. And I and I thrived in that for a long time until I hit massive burnout. And then it was like, I don't even have the stamina anymore to even operate there. But I also know that I start to feel unsafe in my business or feel like my blood pressure is rising, when I get in my head about like, oh, this has to happen now, or I better do this quickly or whatever, right? It's like that old paradigm, I think is the thing that actually causes instability and unsafety, like feeling unsafe in your business versus the other way where it's like believing in divine timing, and that feels so much more calming and peaceful, and grounding. And like,

Allie Tymo  25:42

there's also this other side of the, like, spiritual equation where there's so much conversation about quantum leaping. Yeah, where it's like, you know, Quantum Leap your results and go from like, here to there. So, so quickly, and it's like, that's great. And there's availability for that. But at the same time, the conversation of if somebody were to give you everything that you wanted tomorrow, would you even have the energetic capacity to hold it? Or would you freak out? Would you be like, this is a fluke, I'm an impostor, what's going on? So let's build that sense of safety, expand your energetic capacity. So when your manifestations where you're going, and the manifestations that you know, are coming, what are you doing to be the person who holds it all?

Kathryn Thompson  26:24

Yeah. And it's so true, because I think, as I experienced it in my up levels, and I know this is going to be super impactful for the listeners is like, that's, you know, the, we desire something, right, we desire that next level, or whatever it is. But I also know that that desire, I wasn't ready to receive it. Like, I know that I wasn't ready to receive it, and still potentially still working through patterns, limiting beliefs, all the things that I know, energetically. I can't hold that yet. I know, that's where I want to go. And I have this vision, and I'm holding it. But I know that it's going to take time to get there. So it's like, all of those things for entrepreneurs. Like it's, it's one thing to Yeah, want the 10k months, or the six figure business or the multiple, seven figures. But exactly as you said, like, you've got to be the person that can receive and hold that energetically without completely melting down, right, like, yeah,

Allie Tymo  27:20

and it's okay, if Yeah, time, like, literally, anyone needs to hear just one thing. It's okay, if it takes time. Yeah, it doesn't have to happen quickly. You can do it in your own time. And it's going to be incredible. And I don't think the conversation that I think is lacking in this space, is sustainability in business, how are you building a sustainable business where you're not running into burnout, you actually feel supported, instead of just needing like, you know, dopamine hits of like constant launching, or trying to like, go this and do this and trying to Quantum Leap all the time, and then realizing, Oh, my God, like what's going on? Like, there's so many times I've had conversations where, you know, maybe somebody had a really high multi-five-figure months, and then the next month, they made $1,000. And they're like, Well, did you even enjoy the month where you made a lot? It's like, no, they didn't, yeah, or, you know, like, all of these things that come into play. And even realizing that we think that the 10 came on to the six-figure business or whatever business is going to be like, the golden ticket will finally feel happy. But what I realized is, I never put pressure on myself in my business. I was just like, in that beginning phase, when I was pivoting, like I just said, $1,700 a month. But like, that was it and everything on top of that. It was just like extra, I was like, Oh, this is great. I'm so supported. But then when I started hitting months, where my income became a lot more than I was like, Oh, how do I keep going? How do I make more and then I realized how much of a drug that can be. And it wasn't healthy. I really had to like, analyze that relationship and be like, Whoa, what's going on here? Because this is not how I had this is not how I want to function.

Kathryn Thompson  29:07

Yeah. And it's so interesting, because when I ditched corporate, I jumped feet first into live brick and mortar, and I sold him produce wine. And I don't even think like, target wise. I mean, we had a yearly target we were aiming for in the first year, but I don't even think it like crossed my mind monthly what we were making, right i just showed up, I had conversations, we sold things were great. It was awesome. However, the more we sold, the more we had to work. It was brick and mortar structure. It wasn't sustainable long term. And then I started in the online world, and it was like a totally different world to me and I lost a huge part of who I was because I tried to keep up with the need to make 10k I need to make 100k need to make seven figures and I lost an essence of who I was and I put a ton of pressure on myself to get the results and I'm good at creating results from a masculine perspective, but it's not sustainable. And I think like you said, it's not talked enough about sustainability is like, I think like the new sexy thing for business because there's nothing great feeling about building a business that you eventually burn out and crashing. Right?

Allie Tymo  30:18

Yeah, from just like anxiety or from lack or scarcity or get that validation.

Kathryn Thompson  30:24

Yeah. And the addiction of it, right? It is a dopamine hit of like, and then you go on your posting, right, and you want things to go viral, and all the likes and the engagement, and it's like the like, you know, it gets to be a total addiction of chasing success in a lot of ways. Yeah,

Allie Tymo  30:40

yeah. And I feel like we're in such a beautiful space, because there's so many women entrepreneurs, and so many women entrepreneurs, online, the coaching space. And it's, we have such a beautiful opportunity to really support each other rise up together, and help each other create those sustainable businesses help each other really focus on like, how do you want to feel in your life? Not just your business? Like, how much joy Do you feel? How much are you playing? How present? Are you? We have an opportunity to really like to do that. Yeah, have the successful business, and just like come together in community and have it feels so heart-centered. But you know, there are these different forces that do pull us away from that. And I think that's why it's so important to like, get out of our head into our heart. What do we actually desire? What do we actually want? What would actually feel fulfilling?

Kathryn Thompson  31:33

Yeah, and just taking, you know, that radical responsibility to achieving that, right, it's like, regardless of the pulling forces, because it can be easy to get online and start comparing and seeing flashy numbers and get all excited and get back into that right or fall back into that. And like you said, it's, we have a beautiful opportunity to support each other and in staying true to who we are and achieving what we desire, like from a heart place, not from this mind or ego of like, I need this, or this is going to make me feel better once I hit this milestone in my business. And I think the thing is, is about being alive in life, right? Like living life, not just working everyday in your business, but actually enjoying the relationships, your children, all of the things traveling, whatever it might be. And that's yeah, goes back to building a sustainable business.

Allie Tymo  32:26

Yeah, exactly. It's like, what do we value at the end of the day, and it's a really exciting place to be. And also, it's like all of those other things, those outside factors when the ego comes into play, and not making any of that means something about you know, that however much money you make, it doesn't mean anything about you like who are you? How was your heart? Like? How generous Are you how all of these things that come into play, and you get to be the fullest expression of you and make a lot of money and have a lot of joy and presence in your life. And I think one of the biggest pieces of advice that I've ever received was that you get to have it all. Yeah, do you really believe that you get to have it all. And then when, when that belief does come like anchored in your body, there's so much possibility there. And there's no room for like doubt or wondering if you're worthy enough? Or if you can do it, or if it's gonna work. It's just like, No, I get I get to have it all. And if, if I win, everyone wins.

Kathryn Thompson  33:28

Yeah. And I think too, you know, going back to values is like, what do we actually value because when we try to build our business, that's a representation of what we think is success based on everybody else, we end up building a business that really at the end of the day, like we don't necessarily value or might not even be a priority in our life. And it's something that you can't sustain eventually, because when you hit a roadblock, or you hit a bump along the way, or anything, it's really easy to walk away from things or give up on things that like, aren't from that heart center, like you're not grounded or anchored in that in terms of like, your mission, right. And one of the other things I was going to mention about like, the whole value pieces, like I heard this one before, from somebody is like what are you going to do with the millions? Because it's like, yes, you're deserving of them. And yes, go for it, if that's what you want, and you value but we put so much clout and you know, on this making a million dollars or multiple millions or whatever. And it's like we chase that. And we think once we get there, like you said, we'll have made it and we get there and it's like, I'm still not fulfilled. I'm still not joyful, and it's like, what will you do with the millions, and is the millions that thing you actually need, right to live the life that you actually desire? Right? Well, maybe it's six figures. Or maybe it's like $50,000 a year like I've heard people say, like, I just want a livable wage, right? You were like, I just want $1,700 A month. I'm like, it doesn't have to be these 100k months. It's just if that's not what you truly desire, if that's your desire, go for it. But I think we don't spend enough time sitting with what do we actually value? How do we want to feel? And what does that look like?

Allie Tymo  35:15

Yes, yes. And it's only such a moving target. Being in this business for, you know, a few years now, it's like, I remember when it was 5k. I remember when it was 10k months, and now all of a sudden, it's evolved to 100k, or multiple, six-figure months is like the goal and the shiny object. And it's like, most people really don't need that much money. Yeah, but there are a lot of people who do feel really disconnected from themselves, who are not tapped into their authentic, true genius of what they're here to do. And they're, and they're not feeling fulfilled because of it. So we think that the target is the money. So we go and we do all the things. And then we're like, wait, but this isn't the thing. It's like, let's, let's come back, let's come back to a really heart-centered conversation, like what you and I are having right now where it's, this feels so revitalizing. And it's like, Yes, this is what we're here to do.

Kathryn Thompson  36:09

Yeah. Yeah. So true. So true. We can spend more time having these conversations. And like I said, it's been so fun chatting with you today and connecting with you. And I know we've covered a lot. And it's been Yeah, so fun. Is there anything else that you'd like to share before we wrap it up?

Allie Tymo  36:28

You know, I was asked recently, the thing, what is the thing that I'm most curious about? And you know, I'm in this space right now, where I've just moved across the country, I've moved away from all of my family, like, with my immediate family, yeah. And everything gets to be different, everything will be different no matter what. So the thing that I'm so curious about is like, what if I do access, or even attempt to access my greatest potential? And what if I just get deeply curious about what my potential is. And there's just so much possibility and so much expansion in that and I think so like, everybody has only scratched the surface of our own potential, but to really, to be able to articulate and communicate and have it land for anybody who's listening is that your potential is so much greater than you could possibly realize. And the more you chase after it, and not even chase after it's the more you tap into it, because it's in you, it's already within you, there's nothing you need to fix, change, worry about access something different, like your potential is raw inside of you right now. And the more that you access that the more you will become an awe of the life you create.

Kathryn Thompson  37:44

I absolutely love that. And I think leaving people with this notion of curiosity, right, because it's already within you. So it's just a matter of uncovering it and what that looks like.

Allie Tymo  37:55

Like what a beautiful opportunity that we get, you know, like how cool is the human experience?

Kathryn Thompson  38:01

Right? So cool, so cool. Where can people find you if they want to connect with you?

Allie Tymo  38:05

Um, probably the best place would be on Instagram. So at allI, Timo, a LLIETY Mo. And yeah, everything can basically be accessed from that space.

Kathryn Thompson  38:17

Brilliant, and we'll link that up in the show notes so that people can easily access it there. Again, thank you so much for being on the show.

Allie Tymo  38:23

Thank you. I appreciate you so much. You're welcome.

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